I like this idea too, don't get me wrong.
However...it's still basically a model claim.
What is going to be able to negate the drama that would come if a person uses a model on that list without caring about someone claiming them?
The difference between this list and the model claim is that the list is changeable and not absolute. Yes, anyone
can use a model that someone else is planning on using. Unlike the official model list, where no one is allowed to use a model someone else is using. However, you
can, but that does not necessarily mean that you
should. I think that it's important that we allow the site members a deal of respect and kindness. No matter if the rules say that you are able to use a model, drivers should care about the feelings of the other people involved. They should care to ask.
If they don't care about that, then the problem goes a lot deeper than anything a rule could solve. The driver simply does not care about the feelings of other drivers, and do you really want to thread with people who would be so rude to someone else? MH is a socially-oriented site. If we take the social aspects out of the way we deal with other people, we will lose all sembance of respect and compassion that we have. It is exactly when we value rules over people that society starts to fall apart. There needs to be a balance. If someone chooses to use a model someone else is using, when the person originally using is actively making progress on their sheet and clearly intending character creation, then I believe that they fully deserve the social consequences that come from that. It's not against the rules and no-one is going to run to the admins and cry, because they can't do anything about it, but it's more than enough of a reason to not like someone. It's not a
nice thing for a person to do. I suppose a choice to ostracize one's self is one's own prerogative.
So, basically, there's nothing about it to negate the drama. Doing that over-all is
creating drama, and the person deserves the consequences. They may not be hated forever, and eventually people would get over it... but it's not nice, and people should look at people who do it as not nice people. I think that this is absolutely
vital to a social site functioning. It will be the end of courtesy on MH if we can be discourteous and then hide behind rules as the reason why. It's not always easy to be polite to people, but it's expected on a site like this. No one comes here to be mean and hurt people's feelings. I don't see why we need rules that make it easier to do so.
I didn't read a lot of these because I have to leave for the weekend soon, but I figured I'd just throw my two cents in here since this issue has affected me personally.
1. As a new member, if I had simply seen even a list of face claims people were working on (maybe parallel to a face claim list, I dunno) while I was doing my model search, rather than having to go through every single sandbox to hope that I didn't miss the one that I wanted to use because it's on the tenth page of your sandbox amid discussion about fairies and plot ideas and what-have-you, I would not use that face. Even if it says in big bold letters "THIS IS NOT A CLAIM". Because I would personally like to avoid that conflict. I wouldn't have to get pissed off and throw chairs at the walls of my house. I mean, even if there's no reserve system, as a new player getting that for reference, I would get the respect system, rather than having to plan a character out in my head, be excited as shit because it's a great face and it's not on the face claim list, and be disappointed when someone shows up and stakes an unwritten claim over said face. That's annoying.
2. If you're working on eight different WIPs and you have face claims on there for all of them, I'm judging you. Literally. Like, I understand you're "working" on all of them, but come on. You're face hoarding, especially when you expect me to automatically give them up to you when you might not finish them for two years.
3. I personally had half a mind to take all models off of my wip list, simply because i wouldn't want someone else to think that they didn't have the opportunity to challenge me on a face claim. It hasn't happened yet, but I'm sure it eventually will. And I'm sure I'll let them have them.
4. I don't see how it could be a disrespect to someone to take their face claims because, in all honesty, taking claim over a face you're not finished with is a disrespect on the face claim rule which specifically says "2. Do not post a claim if you are not sorted.". Don't tell me that I'm stepping on your toes and don't tell me I'm disrespecting you because there is no rule that I can't give you friendly competition.
5. I personally think that taking three nights to write up a sheet (I'm a fast writer, personally) does not make them of lesser quality of someone who takes a year. You could take fourty years and you'll probably still get pended for something. It's never going to be perfect.
6. If we allow the claim of one face, who says that if someone takes another one of the eight faces you're working on, you won't hate them and threaten to tell everyone you know about it. Or talk shit about them to everyone you can. I'm not sure.
7. I don't see what the big obsession with getting one face is. There's someone else out there that will fit the description of your character, even if you're completely done with the sheet, and there's someone out there just as pretty.
All of this being said, I think that what I would suggest would be a list for reference. And not harassing someone if they take it anyway. I personally wouldn't because I know what the outlined rules are, and I abide by them. That being said, as I've said before, if it's obvious to me that someone is working on that face that I can reference while looking for a face, there would be no conflict. With this system (the "courtesy" one), however, the only drama that can be sparked is a result of someone getting possessive over a face they have no legitimate claim over. And by legitimate, I mean by rule somewhere.
EDIT: I also wanted to point out that this issue is one that may affect mostly (if not only) new drivers. Older ones have the time and know-how to go through everyone's sandbox (or know them by memory after having previously looked) to make sure their face isn't already being worked on. As many of you haven't been "new"for quite some time, you might not remember how it felt.
1. I fully understand this concern. At looking at the current system, I can see where it's difficult to see who's working on which character with what model. As a member who's been around for awhile, I have the luxury of knowing a lot of other people's WIPs... but things like that pass me by, personally, every now and then. This is a very valid point. This is the reason why I'm suggesting the listing. It will put all of that information in one place where people can easily search and see what's going on. If they see a character there and can't find them in the sandbox, they can always PM the driver and ask "Hey, I saw that you were planning to use x model for y character, but I don't see anything about y in your sandbox. Are you still planning on using x?"
However, this becomes a less valid argument when, the moment a member posts in the sandbox, they see a message that a driver is using a particular model for a character. This frequently happens, because established members
do tend to know other people's WIPs. When effort is made to inform a driver that the model is being used, the argument about "not knowing" becomes invalid. Once someone tells you, you know, and then it's on you to decide if you want to be respectful of the other person or not. If you choose to do it anyway, it's a personal insult to the driver. You
can, of course. No one will stop you, but it goes back to the question of whether or not you
should.
2. As far as this point, I understand the thought behind it, but not all WIPs are being actively worked on. I have seven WIPs in my sandbox right now, and all of them have models. Of those characters, I am only actively working on two of them: John and Felicia. The others may have models that inspire me for them (model hunting is a large part of character creation for me, personally), but if someone else wanted to use them, I would probably let them have them. A few days ago, I gave Misha Collins to Fe
e to use as a character model for one of her WIPs. I had picked him out for my character, but I wasn't doing anything about the character. So, I gave him up. Posing a picture of the character is not entirely enough to claim, I agree. There needs to be progress. Slow or fast, progress is key. When you've seen that someone has just posted a character idea, however, or they've edited the post within the past few weeks, that shows progress. When in doubt, though, you can always ask the driver.
3 &4. I have given away more than a few WIP models. I don't expect others to give away models they're currently working on, however. I think there needs to be some sort of respect of other members. It should never be a race to the sorting hat. That's not fun for anyone, and it's not nice. All it is is pressure. As far as "Do not post a claim if you are not sorted" relates specifically to the official model claim. That list is not for WIPs. That list is for played characters. The unofficial nature of WIPs makes an "official" list nearly impossible to manage. This is why I feel an informal list is better.
I don't understand how you could
not see it as disrespectful to another person to know that they are intending to do something, so you rush to do it before them so that they cannot do it. This, like I said, is a social site. It's about everyone having a good time and making friends. Being rude has no place here.
5. I'm not trying to say that writing a quick sheet is necessarily lesser quality. I'm saying that time limits will encourage slower writers to 'cut corners' in their sheet and rush to get them sorted. You can write a good sheet in a short amount of time, that's true. Quick writing is good.
Rushed writing is not good.
6. As I said before, not every single WIP with a model in their sheet is a 'claim.' I actually hate the use of the word claim for this, but I'll go ahead with it anyway. The key is progress. When a person is making progress on a sheet, or when they've touched it a few days ago, or a week, or even a few months imo... it's clear that the intent to make that character is still there. A member should respect their fellow members enough to listen to it.
I don't know where you heard about anyone 'threatening' to 'talk shit' about any members, but I think it's expected that in delicate situations like that that other people will notice the injustice and react accordingly. It's uncommon that someone wants to thread/plot with someone who doesn't respect other members or who intentionally starts trouble. That's not a threat. That's a fact. However, I believe that if you or anyone else is afraid for other people to know what you did/said, then you should not have done or said them. I am a very upfront person. I say how I feel and will always be happy to explain my decisions and opinions because I don't act unless I believe that I am doing the right thing. I stand by my choices and apologize when I feel I may have acted incorrectly. If a person is afraid of other people's responses to their actions, they should rethink their actions.
7. I can agree with this to a degree. For me, the character model is an important part of character development. Rarely, the model proceeds the character. However, the face is
not the most important. However, the
respect is. It is not about the face in these discussions. It's about the unnecessary malice behind the intention.